I am an inclusive therapist who welcomes clients of all sexual preferences, practices, and identities, including those who identify as "kinky" or practice BDSM and have particular sexual fetishes. I am knowledgeable and accepting of the wide spectrum of sexualities and recognize that there are various ways to find pleasure and satisfaction in consensual sexual relationships and practices. Additionally, I am equipped to address various sexual concerns and barriers that clients may face.


Common concerns in sex therapy may include:

  • Premature ejaculation

  • Delayed ejaculation

  •   Painful intercourse

  • Low libido

  • Inability to achieve orgasm

  •   Sexual anxiety and shame

  • Body image issues

  • Sexual trauma and abuse

  • Relationship issues related to sex

  • Gender and sexual identity exploration

  •   Communication problems related to sex

  • Infidelity and trust issues in sexual relationships

  • Sexual compulsivity or addiction

  • Managing sexual side effects of medication or medical conditions

  • Sexual compatibility issues in couples

 

Common concerns in kink/BDSM relationships can include:

  • Communication: Difficulty in communicating needs, wants, and boundaries between partners.

  •   Safety: Risk of physical injury or emotional harm during scenes or play.

  •   Consent: Ensuring that all parties involved have given informed, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent for all activities.

  • Power Dynamics: Managing power dynamics in relationships, especially in D/s (Dominance/submission) dynamics.

  • Stigma: Facing societal judgment, discrimination, or marginalization due to participation in kink/BDSM relationships or practices.

  • Partner Compatibility: Finding compatible partners with shared interests, desires, and boundaries.

  • Emotional Connection: Developing and maintaining emotional connections and intimacy within kink/BDSM relationships.

  • Mental Health: Addressing mental health concerns that may be present in individuals or within the relationship dynamics.

  • Negotiation: Navigating negotiations around scenes, play, and relationship agreements.

  • Aftercare: Providing emotional support and aftercare for all parties involved after scenes or play.

Sexual concerns can have a negative impact on an individual's mental health and overall well-being

  • Sexual problems or difficulties can lead to anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem

  • Negative beliefs or attitudes about sex and sexuality can contribute to shame, guilt, and negative self-image

  • Sexual trauma or abuse can cause post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and other mental health issues

  • Unresolved sexual issues can cause relationship problems and impact communication and intimacy

  • Addressing sexual concerns through therapy can improve mental health, increase self-esteem, and enhance overall well-being.

How I help:

  • Providing a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to discuss their concerns and experiences.

  • Helping clients explore their identities and desires, and understand their boundaries.

  • Supporting clients in developing healthy communication skills and negotiating consensual agreements within their relationships.

  • Providing education on safe practices and risk reduction strategies to avoid physical harm or injury.

  • Helping clients navigate any shame, guilt, or stigma they may experience related to their interests or behaviors.

  • Assisting clients in managing any negative effects on mental health, such as anxiety or depression, that may result from conflicts within their relationships or social ostracism.

  • Referring clients to appropriate resources or support groups within the community if needed.

  • Assisting clients in understanding the physical and emotional aspects of their sexual concerns or barriers.

  • Providing education and resources on sexual health, functioning, and practices to help clients make informed decisions.

  • Offering techniques and strategies to manage sexual concerns, such as ED, PE, low libido, and sexual pain.

  • Helping clients explore and embrace their sexuality and sexual identity, including kink/BDSM.

  • Providing guidance and support in navigating issues related to sexual orientation, gender identity, and relationship dynamics.

  • Incorporating evidence-based practices to address specific sexual concerns or issues.

  • Collaborating with medical providers or other healthcare professionals to provide comprehensive care for clients.